Being too needy is not healthy for you or attractive to him. You want and deserve to be loved, respected, and appreciated by your man. But when you will do anything to get even the tiniest scraps of his time ...
Toxic friends are energy vampires who feed off you, and once you set some firm boundaries and enforce them, they often go away in search of better prey. So if you’re scratching your head and wondering how you got into ...
When you’re sick and need healing, your default can sometimes be to complain, whine, or simply submit to misery. What if instead you sent the most powerful healing agent of the universe — pure love — toward your own body and ...
Do you suspect your BFF is a drama queen, and probably not good for you? Before you can break free from a toxic relationship with a drama queen, you have to be able to NAME it as a toxic relationship. Take the 10-question true/false quiz below. This may save you YEARS of misery… QUIZ: Is […]
Even when you’re in the middle of a painful breakup, it’s nearly impossible to stop your heart from asking the question… “Should I try to get him back?” 5 Critical Things to Consider If You Want to Try to Get Him Back “My ex and I just broke up a month ago and it’s been […]
Have you ever been inappropriately touched by a man, or had to fend of gropers and grabbers, or even just been on a date that went really, really wrong? What is inappropriate touch? The issue of non-consensual touch — any kind of touching that you do not want or agree to — is particularly important […]
“Hi Claire, I have recently broken up with my ex. It was only when I looked back that I found the problems in our relationship. Towards the end, he had sex with multiple women. After the break up, there was quite a bit of drama. He and his current gf accused me of spreading the […]
Some days you go into the world more cautiously than others. Perhaps you’re not sure why you are being so hesitant or guarded. Or whether you should trust your feelings at all… Do you need to trust your feelings today? I invite you to take 3 minutes to listen to your feelings, to validate yourself, […]
Almost no one PLANS to have an affair. But they do happen, and the the question of whether an affair relationship can become a good and lasting marriage often comes up for those involved… He says he’s leaving his wife for me. Will our marriage work out? “I’m in love with a married man and […]
Are you walking into the unknown today? There are times in everyone’s life when we simply don’t know what we’re about to be facing. A frightening diagnosis, a new job, and fresh and painful breakup: our lives are filled with moments of uncertainty about the future. I invite you to take 3 minutes to claim […]
Not every affair begins because there are problems in the marriage. The reasons can be very surprising. And knowing those reasons is part of being protected against it happening to YOU… Our marriage was in good shape, so WHY is he having an affair? “Dear Claire, I just found out that my husband has been […]
You want to be MORE than friends, but you’re not sure what HE thinks… Here are 5 ways to answer the question “Does he want to be MORE than friends?” Like any sane woman, all you want is a definite sign that he is, in fact, truly in love with you. You want to know […]
He’s fireworks on a hot city night, you’re an early-morning snowfall in the wilderness. No one would EVER have expected the two of you to end up together. Are you too different for love? Are you too different to be compatible? Or will your differences refresh and energize each other? “Dear Claire, I have been […]
- QUIZ: Are You Too Needy (and Pushing Him Away)?
- A Toxic Friend is Sucking Away Your Joy. Here’s How to Break Free…
- A Meditation For When You Need Healing (The Rainbow Circle of Breath)
- QUIZ: Is Your BFF a Drama Queen?
- Should You Try to Get Him Back? 5 Valuable Ways to Make the BEST Decision for You
- Inappropriate Touching on a First Date (or ANY Time)
- 3 Brilliant Reasons to Try to Save a Relationship (and How to Know When to Let Him Go)
- Helping Yourself to Trust Your Feelings
- Can Affair Relationships Become Successful Marriages?
- How to Walk With Courage When You’re Walking Into The Unknown