46 Flirty-Not-Dirty Texts to Send Your New Crush

flirty textsYou have that initial spark flaring, but now you want to coax it into a little love fire. Maybe a big, lust-driven bonfire eventually… But not yet.

For now, you need texts to send that are fun and flirty, something that TOTALLY commands his interest and makes him unable to keep his mind off you.

Here are 46 flirty texts to send your new crush, adorable boyfriend, or the man you’ve loved for years.

Some of these are spicier and more suggestive texts than others, so choose according to where you are in your relationship. And don’t forget, they don’t ALWAYS have to be texts to send; a few of these these could also take the form of a fun little love note (you know, on actual paper, hidden in the pocket of his jeans or somewhere else it will surprise him)…

Have fun, gorgeous woman!

  1. I’m still wearing that smile you gave me…
  2. I’ve been crazy busy ALL day… Wanna come distract me?
  3. Been thinking about you all day. Not always PG, either. 🙂
  4. I love you from the bottom of my heart. And my butt, which is bigger than my heart.
  5. Wanna sneak away for coffee together?
  6. Looking forward to you seeing me tonight… 😉
  7. Can’t fall asleep…thinking of you.
  8. I see you staring at me every day. I like it.
  9. I really miss you (but probably not as much as you miss me. I’m pretty awesome.)
  10. Girls night tonight! Tomorrow I’m gonna need a MAN fix. Will you be around?
  11. Should I wear a short skirt tonight or a really short skirt?
  12. Sleep tight. Sweet dreams! (With me in them…)
  13. I’m usually pretty calm. But when I’m thinking of you, well…
  14. I’m attracted to you in ways I can’t even explain. You get me all confused and grinning at the same time.
  15. That shirt looked so amazing on you last night. Made it hard to keep my mind on anything else…
  16. I smile at my phone like an idiot when I’m texting you.
  17. I’ve seen a million people today and all can think of is how I can’t wait to see you!
  18. You sir, are very attractive. Therefore, I will stare at you. 🙂
  19. When I’m with you, the only thing I want to be is closer.
  20. I had a lot of fun today. We should have a lot of fun again soon.
  21. I wanna curl up in your arms and listen to your heartbeat soothe me to sleep.
  22. I have an extra ticket for tonight and I need to invite a sexy, charming, fabulous man. Know anyone?
  23. Sundays are for snuggling. Wanna come over?
  24. Oh no, my heart is missing! Did you steal it?
  25. I love you more than having the bed all to myself…
  26. YOU are that “oh, nothing” when people ask me what I’m thinking about.
  27. If you kiss my neck… I’m not responsible for what happens next.
  28. People keep saying it feels like butterflies when you like someone. But it feels like fire to me.
  29. You’re in my (NSFW) thoughts.
  30. We go together like… bacon and more bacon!
  31. We go together like Nutella and a spoon.
  32. We go together like Diet Coke and Mentos.
  33. We go together like nerds and glasses.
  34. We go together like moonshine and a Mason jar.
  35. I just love hearing your “sleepy” voice…
  36. Our lips should have a meeting.
  37. How did I get so lucky, having YOU for a boyfriend?
  38. That dip in the road that sends your belly to your throat? That’s how it feels when you kiss me.
  39. You put your arms around me and I’m home.
  40. You don’t “cross” my mind. You live there. 🙂
  41. I love you more than coffee (but please don’t make me prove it).
  42. Love, love, love your lips. Can’t wait to taste them again.
  43. A kiss burns 6.4 calories per minute. Wanna workout?
  44. If you were a library book, I’d never take you back.
  45. I like you even on bad days, when everyone else annoys me.
  46. You take my breath away!

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17 Responses to 46 Flirty-Not-Dirty Texts to Send Your New Crush

  1. Julia May 21, 2015 at 9:36 am #

    Awwwwww, Claire, this is awesome! I especially resonate with no. 1, 6, 12, 20, 21, 22, 27 (mmmhhm!), 30 (hilarious!), and 39. I’m not gonna lie, some of them do feel a bit too cheesy for me… :p And that’s ok, there’s something here for anyone and for any situation. Thank you, I’ll try to use some (and the extra tips!) the next time I have the opportunity… 🙂

    • Claire Casey May 21, 2015 at 9:41 am #

      You should see me, Julia — I’m scrolling up and down between your comment and the list of texts, trying to see what your faves are. I’m like a monkey running up and down the tree getting coconuts! 😀

      Btw, MY faves today are the goofy ones, numbers 30-34. I could have put like, twenty of those on there. But I restrained myself. You’re welcome.

  2. Kat May 21, 2015 at 11:20 am #

    I sent a combination of 43 and 36 it looked like this: Good morning!!! Did you know that kissing burns 6.4 calories per minute? Our lips should have a meeting.. he loved it!!!! Thanks for the great ideas.. I will be using these again!!!!

    • Claire Casey May 21, 2015 at 11:45 am #

      Hah! I love it, Kat, you brilliant woman. The world NEEDS MORE KISSING in it, and clearly you’re just the woman to get some started. 🙂

  3. sharp bunting May 22, 2015 at 12:43 pm #

    My boyfriend has a lot of girls on Facebook for friends an he’s on it off an on all day long an ignoring me. What can I do to get his attention of facebook an on me

    • Claire Casey May 22, 2015 at 12:59 pm #

      A couple of questions for you, sharp bunting

      Are you actively pursuing your own dreams and goals in life right now? And are you dating other guys?

      Because if there’s one thing that is incredibly attractive to a man, it’s a confident, happy woman who is actively being pursued by other guys.

      However, if the problem is simply that your boyfriend spends too much time online and not much time with you, you should definitely have a thoughtful (drama-free) conversation with him about it. ESPECIALLY if “quality time” is your love language, or the thing which most makes you feel loved. And then the two of you should make plans for how you can get the quality time together that will make you feel loved and build your relationship.

      If the two of you are committed to this relationship, you will both keep working on this issue until you come out the other side to a better place. It’s what people in committed relationships do every day. Not always easy, but definitely worth it!

      My very best to you! xoxo Claire

  4. sharon bunting May 22, 2015 at 2:25 pm #

    Thank u claire

  5. JJ June 23, 2015 at 9:44 pm #

    I’m going to love this! So is he!

    • Claire Casey June 24, 2015 at 8:39 am #

      So excited for you, JJ! If you think of it, let me know which ones get the best reaction. And I will try to get another list put together for you. 🙂

  6. Tyvek Nift October 5, 2015 at 7:43 am #

    The next thing that you must understand is that flirty does not necessarily mean filthy . Sure, some flirty text messages that you can send will sound a little risque, but they don’t have to. In fact, you are going to quickly discover that the more subtle your message is and the more that it’s filled with innuendo, the more powerful that it will be.

  7. natasha January 31, 2016 at 4:51 pm #

    hie there
    my bf doesnt text or call for an entire day and i have had to gather the guts to text first and to ask how he has been.if i do so he replies with one word answers like okay or im busy.i recently asked him why he doesnt want to chat with me and he said he had no stories.honestly now im consideri g calling the relationship quits after just a month in it.is it a right step or im thinking too fast

    • Claire Casey January 31, 2016 at 8:14 pm #

      Hi, natasha— Thanks for taking the time to read and comment. And you might want to slow down a minute and think about whether or not this is a “dealbreaker” in a relationship for you. Are there other ways your boyfriend communicates or shows you he cares? Does he like to talk with you face-to-face, or is he good on a phone or Skype? Maybe he’s just a quiet type. If he has other signs of a great guy, you might reconsider whether having him text you daily is one of your top goals in the relationship…. xoxo CC

      PS: Here’s a great little way to see if he shows some of the other signs of being a great match for you…
      http://askclairecasey.com/quiz-is-this-the-man-for-me/

  8. Abdulshakur April 12, 2016 at 10:39 am #

    Amazing flirting lines can I get more plz?

  9. ms B January 18, 2017 at 6:35 pm #

    Hi i have just met someone and we live in different towns but i frequent there for work .. I want to text him and say something along the lines of.. after our first meeting you have aroused feelings in me that i felt were so dormant the hard died.. you excite me and so on. I dont want to scare him off but want to make it clear how sexy he was and how he made me feel even though it was our first meeting
    got any cheeky lines for this ?? thanks so much

    • Claire Casey January 19, 2017 at 11:59 am #

      Hi ms B, thanks for commenting. If this is a guy you only just met, I think I would just be friendly, that’s all. Be your normal, interesting self, tell him how much you enjoyed meeting him, or ask about what’s going on for him, but keep it light.

      Something like:

      “I totally enjoyed meeting you this week! After we chatted, I walked back out to my car feeling amazing. (Do you have this effect on everyone?) 🙂 Thanks for being the fabulous guy you are.”

  10. Hanexy June 5, 2017 at 4:29 pm #

    My boyfriend doesn’t talk to me after about a month since we last talked. His mobile phone has spoilt, so I call him on the small one he has gotten. That one month ago, I stopped calling and I couldn’t even tell him why. He called recently that I should log into Facebook, he replies late. So, I had the feeling that he doesn’t like me anymore. He hasn’t called since that last time. I’m fed up of him but can’t stop thinking about him. What do I do?

    • Claire Casey June 5, 2017 at 4:55 pm #

      Hi there Hanexy. The best way to stop thinking about a guy you want to get over is to throw yourself into dating new men! And if you’re not really interested in dating, throw yourself into a passion or hobby of your own. Yes, he’ll be on your mind for a while, but that’s normal. Give yourself the gift of focusing on something or someone new. xoxo

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