He’s amazing, he’s hot, and he leaves you breathless. You emphatically DON’T want to mess this up. (But you’re going to anyway! That’s just part of the deal, isn’t it?) Here are a few helpful guidelines as you make your way toward becoming the good girlfriend he’s blown away by… How can you know if […]
Dating and Romance
Being too needy is not healthy for you or attractive to him. You want and deserve to be loved, respected, and appreciated by your man. But when you will do anything to get even the tiniest scraps of his time and attention — and that still doesn’t feel like enough — you can lose the […]
Have you ever been inappropriately touched by a man, or had to fend of gropers and grabbers, or even just been on a date that went really, really wrong? What is inappropriate touch? The issue of non-consensual touch — any kind of touching that you do not want or agree to — is particularly important […]
You want to be MORE than friends, but you’re not sure what HE thinks… Here are 5 ways to answer the question “Does he want to be MORE than friends?” Like any sane woman, all you want is a definite sign that he is, in fact, truly in love with you. You want to know […]
He’s fireworks on a hot city night, you’re an early-morning snowfall in the wilderness. No one would EVER have expected the two of you to end up together. Are you too different for love? Are you too different to be compatible? Or will your differences refresh and energize each other? “Dear Claire, I have been […]
You’ve been dating but not finding the man you dream of. Most of these guys are losers. This one particular bad habit (and mental approach) may be the exact thing that’s blocking you… Why you’re not finding the man you dream of… “I have a very high sex drive and I enjoy sex, but I feel like […]
How well do you REALLY know your boyfriend? These 10 simple boyfriend quiz questions will tell you exactly where you may be missing some critically important information. Give the quiz to your girlfriends, too, and find out exactly what they know (or don’t know!) about their guys. Or turn it around and see if your boyfriend can answer […]
Just because you felt sparks on your first date (or first 3 dates) doesn’t mean the two of you are meant to be together forever. When you date more than one guy at a time you make much smarter decisions about the best candidate for commitment… “I met this guy a month ago and we clicked and […]
Sometimes couples fight. But there’s no call to be bitchy and rude every time things don’t go the way you want them to. Here’s how to short-circuit rude behavior… How to deal with his rude behavior “Dear Claire, my boyfriend is having PMS at the moment and is rude and distant. His colleague (good girlfriend of […]
Almost no one sets out to fall in love across continents, but guess what? Love happens. Here’s how to make the most of an international dating relationship… Are you anxious about diving into an international dating relationship? Here’s how it really CAN work… Hi Claire! I met this guy on a cruise and we had […]
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