There are a lot of forces that influence a man’s sex drive, and guess what? You’re wrong about what those forces are. If he wants sex more than you do, it may have absolutely nothing to do with how horny he is… How to figure out the REAL reasons the two of you have different […]
Intimacy & Sex
Does a guy’s passionate plea for dirty talk ever freak you out or make you feel awkward? Here’s WHY he loves it, and HOW to ease into it (without feeling weird)… Why do guys love dirty talk? Long before Jason Derulo debuted his “Talk Dirty” song in 2013, the 1980s glam-rock band Poison made “Talk Dirty to Me” their […]
You know there’s no “magic” number of times per week (month, year) that you SHOULD be getting it on with your guy… But you’re definitely wanting more sexytimes than he does, and you’re not sure what to do about it. Here are 3 POTENT TIPS (insert sex joke here) for how to handle your boyfriend’s low sex drive…And […]
It seems ridiculous, but you have this strange little idea bopping around in your head that maybe (and this is such a weird thought) he didn’t come. Nah, that can’t be the case, you think. Guys ALWAYS finish. Don’t they? Did he just fake his climax? It seemed like great sex – from the spicy-hot text messages […]
Sometimes sex happens between two consenting adults without any other emotional commitments. It might even be swing-from-the-chandeliers monkey fun. And if a booty call is ALL both people want from the relationship, everything is fine. But what if you’d like to actually WAKE UP together and spend time with him for once? Have breakfast together, plan […]
Why is it that women want more oral sex, but aren’t getting it? Because according to the National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior, half of the guys surveyed had received it, but only a third of the women had. You want your man to go downtown, right? Here’s what’s holding him back, AND what […]
Deep breath. Your boyfriend wants a threesome, but you don’t. It’s not an unusual story. Any time two people connect their lives, boundaries will be challenged, crossed, negotiated, and shifted. But sometimes you have an intimate boundary that isn’t up for discussion or change. Usually that’s a foundational value you hold. For example, if you’re […]
The two of you are in bed, intimate and passionate and tangled up together, and then… He closes his eyes in order to get to the “finish line.” What exactly does that mean? If you are like a lot of women, you might wonder if he’s retreating into a vivid fantasy world. Is he thinking about another […]
Saying exactly the right words to a man while the two of you are steaming things up together can have a powerful, electrifying impact on the overall health of your relationship. In fact, NOT saying the right words — especially while intimately engaged! — can wreck things in a pretty embarrassing way, as I found out. (Read the whole awkward […]
Becoming a smokin’ hot sensual woman is about reveling in your femininity, taking joy in yourself and the world around you, and never letting guilt come between you and the man you adore. Sound complicated? It really isn’t… Let me tell you a sensual little story, then you’ll find 4 powerful steps that will help […]
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