Take the Lust or Love Quiz

Is it lust or love? If you’ve dated for any length of time, you’ve asked yourself this question and wondered whether he was seeing you as (just) a smoking hot siren of the sheets, or as a fabulous woman with much to offer (including mind-blowing sex)…

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Does he think of you as a booty call or a girlfriend?

If all you want is crazy-great sexytimes and nothing else, well, you’re probably fine with being in a lust-only relationship. You’ve got fire and fantasy, if not friendship or soul-intimacy. He’s gorgeous, and he makes you feel urgent and hot and (if you’re honest) needy.

But if you find yourself wondering if in fact what you THOUGHT was a super-hot relationship with potential to go the distance was really just an old-fashioned booty call all along… Take the Lust or Love Quiz and find out the truth…

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Shift the Power

The Lust or Love Quiz: 10 Signs You’re His Booty Call, Not His Girlfriend

If you score more than two on the Lust or Love Quiz, chances are you’re not his girlfriend

1. You have an incredible sex life. And that’s ALL you have.

Mind-blowing sex is awesome, but it’s no substitute for a beautiful, lasting relationship.

2. You don’t go on real dates.

If you go anywhere at all, it’s somewhere he can get nookie.

3. Once he gets what he wants, he leaves or pushes you to leave.

Either there’s a “thing” he has to get to, or else he’s handing you all your stuff and hurrying you out the door.

4. He tells you outright he’s only in it for the sex.

Guys will tell you straight up that they “aren’t looking for anything serious” or “don’t want to have a girlfriend right now.” You do yourself a disservice when you don’t listen.

5. He always initiates sex when you’re together.

He never just wants to hang out, watch a movie, go running, or do pretty much anything except get into your pants.

6. He doesn’t introduce you to close friends or family.

The less real and personal information you have about him, the easier it will be for him to disappear when you cut him off or he loses interest in using you for sex.

7. He only texts or calls when he wants sex.

And mostly it’s texting, because it’s less personal.

8. You know he’s chatting up other women, too.

He’s not only using you for sex, he’s got backup supplies. There’s no commitment other than what it takes in order to keep using you for sex.

9. He only spends juuuuust enough time with you to get sex.

There’s no romance or quality time or 5 hour long conversations over soy lattes. His goal is not to get to know you better, it’s just to bang you and get on with his life.

10. He doesn’t share anything deep or emotional with you.

He wants to keep this casual, because anything more would bind the two of you together in ways he doesn’t want. He keeps his emotional distance.

5 Signs What You REALLY Want is Love…

So now you’ve taken the Lust or Love Quiz, and you have a few more answers about what’s going on between the two of you. Here are just a few more checkpoints that will help you know for certain…

  1. Your intuition is telling you something is not quite right about things as they are.
  2. You’re afraid that if you try to change things, he’ll leave.
  3. You want the kind of relationship where being with him makes you feel like the best kind of woman in the world.
  4. You wish you could spend hours just taking, and sharing each other’s lives and stories.
  5. You want to meet his family and friends, and do things other than just get naked together.

How to flip that booty call into a real relationship!

Okay, I hear you girlfriend, loud and clear. If you want to find out how to shift the power and add LOVE to the lust and turn your sex-crazy guy into a Real Man of devotion and commitment… Read my article on How to Flip That Booty Call Into a REAL Relationship. Just click the link! 🙂

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