Guys are watching a ton of porn! Should you be worried? Should you give ultimatums, or simply leave? Or is it really a problem in your relationship? What if it becomes a problem? So many questions come in about why men watch porn, and it might be helpful to take a look at some of […]
He was just so sweet when you first met him, and clearly he thought you were hot. Yes, you knew he was married, but you never, ever (ever!) thought of yourself as a man’s “mistress.” That’s for Victorian romance novels, right? But that’s what you’re doing, agreeing to be his mistress, his “sugar on the […]
Food can be incredibly erotic, and sensuously feeding your man a sexy food right from your naked fingers can make the needle on both your Romance-O-Meters jump right off the dial. Begin by finding quiet, tucked away spot. Sure, it could be a hotel balcony overlooking the ocean, but it might also be the hood of his car […]
Sometimes you forget just how beautiful you are. But you are. You are so beautiful. And since Liam Neeson (in a kilt) isn’t at your doorstep to remind you daily, I’ve put together a few of my own little reminders. Some are quotes from movie stars, poets, or authors, some are unknown. One or two […]
If you’re wondering why your man is behaving more like a little boy than like the real man you dream of, you might consider taking a look at how you’re treating him. Often our very first and most important role model for being a woman is a mother. And whether or not your mom was […]
Have you ever fallen for the wrong guy? Have you ever found yourself confessing tearfully to a close girlfriend, “I love him but he doesn’t love me back…”? There’s not enough wine or ice cream in the world for that, is there? But there’s a reason these things happen, and your job is to suss it […]
There comes a time in every dating relationship where you have to make some extremely scary decisions. Are you willing to leave things as they are, or risk ruining them by taking a giant step forward toward commitment and marriage? How can you tell him “I want to get married” without scaring him off? And how soon […]
You have a big date coming up, and all day you feel anxious. By the time you need to walk out the door, you are a bundle of nerves. You’ve done this before, but every time is different — you want to be at your best, you want to shine! And you can, pretty lady. […]
These days you might think that everyone kisses at the end of a great first date. But what does it mean if you don’t? Dear Claire, I’ve been out of the dating world for a while (was married for 6 years) and now I’m having to figure all that out again. I just got back […]
So you’ve been dating a wonderful man long enough to start asking yourself that famous question… Could this be the man for me? Does he have the potential to be my one-and-only? I posted this quiz as part of an earlier article, but “Is this the man for me?” is such a common question that I’m reposting it below, without all the […]
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