He’s fireworks on a hot city night, you’re an early-morning snowfall in the wilderness. No one would EVER have expected the two of you to end up together. Are you too different for love? Are you too different to be compatible? Or will your differences refresh and energize each other? “Dear Claire, I have been […]
You ARE a fierce gift, no matter what other messages you’re receiving… It can be overwhelming sometimes, this message that you need to do/fix/be/love MORE. Sometimes you become exhausted – and that makes it difficult for your spirit to grow. But you are a fierce gift in the world, even if you aren’t meeting everyone else’s expectations. Today I […]
Have you ever considered “befriending your fear”? If fear is interfering with your ability to be fully present in your own life, or making you behave in ways that don’t match your values, or keeping you from being connected with those who are important to you, consider befriending your fear. Take three minutes to look honestly […]
One of you doesn’t want to have sex much, and the other one does. But you love each other! Before you break up, have you at least TRIED these 7 solutions? My boyfriend doesn’t want to have sex as much as I do… Is this a reason to break up? “Claire, I’m on the verge of breaking […]
“Claire, can I trust him?” It’s a good question, and there are 5 main things that go into building the kind of trust that will let you give your heart into another person’s care. Does he have all five of these trust factors? There Are 5 Powerful Ways to Build Trust Steven Covey, author of The […]
Emotional triggers are painful, but they are not who you are. Emotional triggering is a survival response. If you’ve been struck by lightning before, it makes sense that you would be on high alert during a thunderstorm. A 3 Minute Meditation for Managing Your Emotional Triggers You can’t control a thunderstorm, but you also don’t have to […]
You’ve been dating but not finding the man you dream of. Most of these guys are losers. This one particular bad habit (and mental approach) may be the exact thing that’s blocking you… Why you’re not finding the man you dream of… “I have a very high sex drive and I enjoy sex, but I feel like […]
I invite you to take the next 3 minutes with me to get grounded again, and find the pace that nourishes and sustains your soul… By making a conscious decision to slow down in this moment, maybe for this day, I am gently bringing myself into the present moment, grounding myself in what is happening […]
How well do you REALLY know your boyfriend? These 10 simple boyfriend quiz questions will tell you exactly where you may be missing some critically important information. Give the quiz to your girlfriends, too, and find out exactly what they know (or don’t know!) about their guys. Or turn it around and see if your boyfriend can answer […]
You’re overwhelmed again. It happens. And I want you to remember that you are well worth the 3 minutes it takes to stop, ground yourself, breathe deeply, and remind yourself of the power and holiness of your journey, even in the midst of the overwhelm… Today I let go of all pictures in my mind […]
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