Sometimes you hear this said: Fly your freak flag. We say it to each other because deep down we secretly fear that we’re too weird, too odd, too far outside the norm. And we fear that differentness because it means we might be unwelcome in the warm circle of family, friends, a man’s loving arms… […]
“You may encounter many defeats, but you must not be defeated. In Fact, it may be necessary to encounter the defeats, so you can kno who you are, what you can rise from, and how you can still come out of it.” –Maya Angelou In the space of a few minutes I received two emails from broken-hearted […]
Life is like a box of crayons. Most people are the 8-color boxes, but what you’re really looking for are the 64-color boxes with the sharpeners on the back. I fancy myself to be a 64-color box, though I’ve got a few missing. — John Mayer I know the feeling. I’ve got a few missing myself, […]
You want to be loved, treated well, respected, and included in your man’s life in ways that enrich your relationship. All of that is normal, right? But what happens when you feel desperate for certain emotional, physical, or financial connections? Take the Needy Girlfriend Quiz What happens when you become a needy girlfriend? Well, then you […]
Most coaches counsel kicking your inner critic to the curb, dealing with her in the harshest terms and refusing to let her destroy your self-esteem and hold back your growth. But what if there was another, more powerful way to defuse the fear and anger that drives your inner critic? What if you could actually make her […]
Guys are watching a ton of porn! Should you be worried? Should you give ultimatums, or simply leave? Or is it really a problem in your relationship? What if it becomes a problem? So many questions come in about why men watch porn, and it might be helpful to take a look at some of […]
He was just so sweet when you first met him, and clearly he thought you were hot. Yes, you knew he was married, but you never, ever (ever!) thought of yourself as a man’s “mistress.” That’s for Victorian romance novels, right? But that’s what you’re doing, agreeing to be his mistress, his “sugar on the […]
Food can be incredibly erotic, and sensuously feeding your man a sexy food right from your naked fingers can make the needle on both your Romance-O-Meters jump right off the dial. Begin by finding quiet, tucked away spot. Sure, it could be a hotel balcony overlooking the ocean, but it might also be the hood of his car […]
Sometimes you forget just how beautiful you are. But you are. You are so beautiful. And since Liam Neeson (in a kilt) isn’t at your doorstep to remind you daily, I’ve put together a few of my own little reminders. Some are quotes from movie stars, poets, or authors, some are unknown. One or two […]
If you’re wondering why your man is behaving more like a little boy than like the real man you dream of, you might consider taking a look at how you’re treating him. Often our very first and most important role model for being a woman is a mother. And whether or not your mom was […]
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