deal breakers

too different for love

Are We TOO Different For Love?

He’s fireworks on a hot city night, you’re an early-morning snowfall in the wilderness. No one would EVER have expected the two of you to end up together. Are you too different for love? Are you too different to be compatible? Or will your differences refresh and energize each other? “Dear Claire, I have been […]

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threesome news

He Wants a Threesome But I Don’t

Deep breath. Your boyfriend wants a threesome, but you don’t. It’s not an unusual story. Any time two people connect their lives, boundaries will be challenged, crossed, negotiated, and shifted. But sometimes you have an intimate boundary that isn’t up for discussion or change. Usually that’s a foundational value you hold. For example, if you’re […]

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right-wrong

9 Signs He’s Wrong For You

You’re wondering if he’s going to be Mr. Right… or if he’s aaaaall wrong for you. How many times have you thought it would be helpful to have a little bit of relationship radar? The fairy-godmother kind of advance warning that would help you accurately predict whether or not the guy you’re seeing right now is The […]

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