One of you doesn’t want to have sex much, and the other one does. But you love each other! Before you break up, have you at least TRIED these 7 solutions? My boyfriend doesn’t want to have sex as much as I do… Is this a reason to break up? “Claire, I’m on the verge of breaking […]
Every woman has a group of sexy words that make her feel like the most sensual, sexiest woman in the universe. (Fellas, listen up…) What women LOVE to hear from their men Guess what? The sexy things a man says DON’T have to be “x-rated.” Here are the sexiest words and phrases that, when your man says them, heat […]
Does a committed couple have to be “getting busy” regularly – or at all – in order to be happy together? Are there couples out there who make relationships without sex work, and even work well? Is sex the foundation of all good relationships? No. It’s not. You can have a good relationship without sex, particularly […]
Radiantly healthy sexuality doesn’t just happen; it’s built up carefully and intentionally over time… Here are 5 simple and beautiful affirmations you can use to center your thoughts and claim the healthy sexuality that is your birthright. Affirmation #1 I am a beautiful, radiant woman. I am wonderfully, miraculously made and the positive energy of […]
There are a lot of forces that influence a man’s sex drive, and guess what? You’re wrong about what those forces are. If he wants sex more than you do, it may have absolutely nothing to do with how horny he is… How to figure out the REAL reasons the two of you have different […]
You know there’s no “magic” number of times per week (month, year) that you SHOULD be getting it on with your guy… But you’re definitely wanting more sexytimes than he does, and you’re not sure what to do about it. Here are 3 POTENT TIPS (insert sex joke here) for how to handle your boyfriend’s low sex drive…And […]
It seems ridiculous, but you have this strange little idea bopping around in your head that maybe (and this is such a weird thought) he didn’t come. Nah, that can’t be the case, you think. Guys ALWAYS finish. Don’t they? Did he just fake his climax? It seemed like great sex – from the spicy-hot text messages […]
Why is it that women want more oral sex, but aren’t getting it? Because according to the National Survey of Sexual Health and Behavior, half of the guys surveyed had received it, but only a third of the women had. You want your man to go downtown, right? Here’s what’s holding him back, AND what […]
Deep breath. Your boyfriend wants a threesome, but you don’t. It’s not an unusual story. Any time two people connect their lives, boundaries will be challenged, crossed, negotiated, and shifted. But sometimes you have an intimate boundary that isn’t up for discussion or change. Usually that’s a foundational value you hold. For example, if you’re […]
Are you dating for the first time in your 50s and worried that things might be harder for you now than they were when you were first in this game? No worries, beautiful. You have more advantages now than you realize! Dear Claire, I am 50 years old and been single for 7 years. 5 […]
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