Some might argue that being a gentleman is archaic and outdated, that it’s all about classist rules and wealthy society.
And yet modern gentlemen exhibit class whether or not they also run a shipping empire, whether or not they are dressed to the nines, and regardless of the social situation.
In addition, today’s gentleman understands the complexities and strengths of a modern woman, and is both respectful and appreciative of her.
He holds doors for you, is courteous with your family, helps you put on your coat, and wants to see you succeed in life. He works to make a good impression and win your trust.
Enjoy these 21 marks of a true gentleman, the kind that makes women melt…
1. There is no tougher judge
A true gentleman has no tougher judge than himself.
2. He’ll make you a believer
A good guy will tell you you’re beautiful. A gentleman will make you believe it.
3. He goes the extra mile
A man does what it takes to get the job done. A gentleman goes the extra mile.
4. He knows what seduction is really about…
A gentleman knows that seduction is not just about appearance, but also intelligence and wit.
5. He does THIS…
If it makes her smile and bite her lip, a gentleman does it more often.
6. He shows her she is valuable to him
Courtesy is as much a mark of a gentleman as courage. A gentleman will open doors, hold chairs, and carry things not because his lady is helpless, but because he wants to show her that she is valuable to him, and worthy of respect.
Make Him Desperate for a Commitment from YOU...
What if you could make a man so desperate for YOU that he can’t sleep at night for wondering how to make you his and his alone…
This totally “regular” woman did EXACTLY that – turned the tables on the guy she wanted – and it worked! It wasn’t hard, but you DO have to know what you’re doing.
And the totally WEIRD thing is that now her boyfriend has made this slightly embarrassing (for him), very revealing (for you) “tell all” video. It explains the 3 unusual things she did to completely put HIM in the “desperate-for-her” seat…
He will BEG YOU to commit to him (<-- click here to watch)
No, it’s not some “trick.” The 3 steps are just not how most women typically approach things with a man, and they certainly aren’t expected by any guy. But they totally spin his head around, and make him putty in your hands. You may find him down on one knee, when you NEVER expected THAT to happen.
In fact, there’s one thing the video DOESN’T tell you…
He’s not her boyfriend any more – he’s her husband. 🙂
7. He cannot be stolen by another woman
If a woman steals your man, let her keep him. A true gentleman cannot be stolen.
8. A gentleman reassures you with actions
A gentleman doesn't try to convince you with his words. Instead he works to reassure you with his actions.
9. He never tries to make you jealous of other beautiful women...
A boy makes his girl jealous of other beautiful girls. A gentleman makes other beautiful women envious of his lady.
10. He wants to wake up every day to you
Some guys look for more girls to sleep with. A gentleman looks for a woman worth waking up to.
11. He knows how to make you feel safe and loved
Sometimes, a gentleman just holds her hand and makes her feel safe and loved.
12. He takes care of important relationship business responsibly
If a serious relationship needs to come to a close, a gentleman ends it manfully and responsibly before he starts looking for another.
13. He will fight for you, even if...
A gentleman will fight for one woman even if 99 others are chasing him.
14. He finds REAL women beautiful
15. He CHOOSES to be a gentleman
Being male is a matter of birth, being a man is a matter of age, but being a gentleman is a matter of choice.
16. The first test of a gentleman
The first test of a gentleman is his respect for those who can be of no possible use to him.
17. He show her how much she means
A gentleman never stops working to show his lady how much she means to him. Even after he's got her.
18. He knows you are incomparable.
A gentleman never compares his lady to other women; for him she is incomparable.
19. He is not threatened by your strength
A gentleman is never threatened by a strong, capable woman. He loves her for her strengths and gives her his loyalty.
20. He's isn't the kind for pick up lines
A gentleman knows that good manners open doors that even the best pick-up lines cannot.
21. He only has eyes for you.
A gentleman attracts the attention of many, but only has eyes for his lady.
Don't settle for less than a true gentleman
Darling, you are too much of a lady to put up with less than a true gentleman.