Dating and Romance

46 Flirty-Not-Dirty Texts to Send Your New Crush


Girlfriend, you already have a spark, and now you want to coax it into a hot little love fire.

You need texts to send that are fun and flirty, something that TOTALLY commands his interest and makes him unable to keep his mind off you.

Here are 46 flirty texts to send your new crush, adorable boyfriend, or the man you’ve loved for years…

  1. I’m still wearing that smile you gave me…
  2. I’ve been crazy busy ALL day… Wanna come distract me?
  3. Been thinking about you all day. Not always PG, either. 🙂
  4. I love you from the bottom of my heart. And my butt, which is bigger than my heart.
  5. Wanna sneak away for coffee together?
  6. Looking forward to you seeing me tonight… 😉
  7. Can’t fall asleep…thinking of you.
  8. I see you staring at me every day. I like it.
  9. I really miss you (but probably not as much as you miss me. I’m pretty awesome.)crazy desire text
  10. Girls night tonight! Tomorrow I’m gonna need a MAN fix. Will you be around?
  11. Should I wear a short skirt tonight or a really short skirt?
  12. Sleep tight. Sweet dreams! (With me in them…)
  13. I’m usually pretty calm. But when I’m thinking of you, well…
  14. I’m attracted to you in ways I can’t even explain. You get me all confused and grinning at the same time.
  15. That shirt looked so amazing on you last night. Made it hard to keep my mind on anything else…
  16. I smile at my phone like an idiot when I’m texting you.
  17. I’ve seen a million people today and all can think of is how I can’t wait to see you!
  18. You sir, are very attractive. Therefore, I will stare at you. 🙂
  19. When I’m with you, the only thing I want to be is closer.
  20. I had a lot of fun today. We should have a lot of fun again soon.
  21. I wanna curl up in your arms and listen to your heartbeat soothe me to sleep.
  22. I have an extra ticket for tonight and I need to invite a sexy, charming, fabulous man. Know anyone?
  23. Sundays are for snuggling. Wanna come over?
  24. Oh no, my heart is missing! Did you steal it?
  25. I love you more than having the bed all to myself…
  26. YOU are that “oh, nothing” when people ask me what I’m thinking about.
  27. If you kiss my neck… I’m not responsible for what happens next.
  28. People keep saying it feels like butterflies when you like someone. But it feels like fire to me.
  29. You’re in my (NSFW) thoughts.
  30. We go together like… bacon and more bacon!
  31. We go together like Nutella and a spoon.
  32. We go together like Diet Coke and Mentos.
  33. We go together like nerds and glasses.
  34. We go together like moonshine and a Mason jar.
  35. I just love hearing your “sleepy” voice…
  36. Our lips should have a meeting.
  37. How did I get so lucky, having YOU for a boyfriend?
  38. That dip in the road that sends your belly to your throat? That’s how it feels when you kiss me.
  39. You put your arms around me and I’m home.
  40. You don’t “cross” my mind. You live there. 🙂
  41. I love you more than coffee (but please don’t make me prove it).
  42. Love, love, love your lips. Can’t wait to taste them again.
  43. A kiss burns 6.4 calories per minute. Wanna workout?
  44. If you were a library book, I’d never take you back.
  45. I like you even on bad days, when everyone else annoys me.
  46. You take my breath away!

NOW send him this (unusual but powerful) “Attraction Text”!

If you’re doing your best with flirty texts and you’re STILL not seeing the response you hoped for, or even worse, you feel like he’s starting to pull away…

Learn this strange “DESIRE” text message (How-To Guide):

Try this crazy "desire" text on him!

Every man is DYING to read THIS text message!

This is probably the most dramatic video I’ve ever seen… because in it, Amy North tells a gut-wrenching story that will make you laugh and cry at the same time…

And she also explains HOW she discovered this secret “Attention Text” that makes a man think about you non-stop… to the point of pure obsession…

It makes him think about devotion. Love. (And if used properly, even marriage…!)

This text uses a powerful psychological technique that Hollywood screenwriters use in their movies to hook an audience in… and you can use this technique to make him worship you until the end of your days.

If you’re even the slightest bit curious, then watch this video now:

–> Click here to hear Amy’s “Desire Text” video

xoxo Claire

PS: The second you send this text to a man, don’t be surprised if he becomes strangely drawn to you (for reasons he won’t be able to explain).

Don’t be surprised if that man who’s been distant in your life begins calling you, texting you, and telling you how he’s ready to commit to you… forever and always.

You simply have to watch this video!

Make A Man Desperate For You With This Text


27 comments on “46 Flirty-Not-Dirty Texts to Send Your New Crush

  1. Awwwwww, Claire, this is awesome! I especially resonate with no. 1, 6, 12, 20, 21, 22, 27 (mmmhhm!), 30 (hilarious!), and 39. I’m not gonna lie, some of them do feel a bit too cheesy for me… :p And that’s ok, there’s something here for anyone and for any situation. Thank you, I’ll try to use some (and the extra tips!) the next time I have the opportunity… 🙂

    • Claire Casey

      You should see me, Julia — I’m scrolling up and down between your comment and the list of texts, trying to see what your faves are. I’m like a monkey running up and down the tree getting coconuts! 😀

      Btw, MY faves today are the goofy ones, numbers 30-34. I could have put like, twenty of those on there. But I restrained myself. You’re welcome.

  2. I sent a combination of 43 and 36 it looked like this: Good morning!!! Did you know that kissing burns 6.4 calories per minute? Our lips should have a meeting.. he loved it!!!! Thanks for the great ideas.. I will be using these again!!!!

    • Claire Casey

      Hah! I love it, Kat, you brilliant woman. The world NEEDS MORE KISSING in it, and clearly you’re just the woman to get some started. 🙂

  3. sharp bunting

    My boyfriend has a lot of girls on Facebook for friends an he’s on it off an on all day long an ignoring me. What can I do to get his attention of facebook an on me

    • Claire Casey

      A couple of questions for you, sharp bunting

      Are you actively pursuing your own dreams and goals in life right now? And are you dating other guys?

      Because if there’s one thing that is incredibly attractive to a man, it’s a confident, happy woman who is actively being pursued by other guys.

      However, if the problem is simply that your boyfriend spends too much time online and not much time with you, you should definitely have a thoughtful (drama-free) conversation with him about it. ESPECIALLY if “quality time” is your love language, or the thing which most makes you feel loved. And then the two of you should make plans for how you can get the quality time together that will make you feel loved and build your relationship.

      If the two of you are committed to this relationship, you will both keep working on this issue until you come out the other side to a better place. It’s what people in committed relationships do every day. Not always easy, but definitely worth it!

      My very best to you! xoxo Claire

  4. sharon bunting

    Thank u claire

  5. I’m going to love this! So is he!

    • Claire Casey

      So excited for you, JJ! If you think of it, let me know which ones get the best reaction. And I will try to get another list put together for you. 🙂

  6. Tyvek Nift

    The next thing that you must understand is that flirty does not necessarily mean filthy . Sure, some flirty text messages that you can send will sound a little risque, but they don’t have to. In fact, you are going to quickly discover that the more subtle your message is and the more that it’s filled with innuendo, the more powerful that it will be.

  7. hie there
    my bf doesnt text or call for an entire day and i have had to gather the guts to text first and to ask how he has been.if i do so he replies with one word answers like okay or im busy.i recently asked him why he doesnt want to chat with me and he said he had no stories.honestly now im consideri g calling the relationship quits after just a month in it a right step or im thinking too fast

    • Claire Casey

      Hi, natasha— Thanks for taking the time to read and comment. And you might want to slow down a minute and think about whether or not this is a “dealbreaker” in a relationship for you. Are there other ways your boyfriend communicates or shows you he cares? Does he like to talk with you face-to-face, or is he good on a phone or Skype? Maybe he’s just a quiet type. If he has other signs of a great guy, you might reconsider whether having him text you daily is one of your top goals in the relationship…. xoxo CC

      PS: Here’s a great little way to see if he shows some of the other signs of being a great match for you…

  8. Abdulshakur

    Amazing flirting lines can I get more plz?

  9. Hi i have just met someone and we live in different towns but i frequent there for work .. I want to text him and say something along the lines of.. after our first meeting you have aroused feelings in me that i felt were so dormant the hard died.. you excite me and so on. I dont want to scare him off but want to make it clear how sexy he was and how he made me feel even though it was our first meeting
    got any cheeky lines for this ?? thanks so much

    • Claire Casey

      Hi ms B, thanks for commenting. If this is a guy you only just met, I think I would just be friendly, that’s all. Be your normal, interesting self, tell him how much you enjoyed meeting him, or ask about what’s going on for him, but keep it light.

      Something like:

      “I totally enjoyed meeting you this week! After we chatted, I walked back out to my car feeling amazing. (Do you have this effect on everyone?) 🙂 Thanks for being the fabulous guy you are.”

  10. My boyfriend doesn’t talk to me after about a month since we last talked. His mobile phone has spoilt, so I call him on the small one he has gotten. That one month ago, I stopped calling and I couldn’t even tell him why. He called recently that I should log into Facebook, he replies late. So, I had the feeling that he doesn’t like me anymore. He hasn’t called since that last time. I’m fed up of him but can’t stop thinking about him. What do I do?

    • Claire Casey

      Hi there Hanexy. The best way to stop thinking about a guy you want to get over is to throw yourself into dating new men! And if you’re not really interested in dating, throw yourself into a passion or hobby of your own. Yes, he’ll be on your mind for a while, but that’s normal. Give yourself the gift of focusing on something or someone new. xoxo

  11. am dating a married man ????? we love each other more not for sex, what can i do???

  12. Anna Grace

    Hey, so I love this guy and he loves me back. He said so! The problem is, is that I don’t know him IRL. I know him from a friend saying to text him. We shares our feelings and we love each other and he is super flirty. Yet he hasn’t asked me out. I like him and loves me but how should we meet and am I over reacting? I really think were good together but now idk… He says he loves me but he won’t ask Mr out. Should I ask him out? What should I do? Also of he’s flirty how should I be flirty back?!? Thanks SO much if you respond!

    • Claire Casey

      Hey there Anna Grace!

      It sounds like you’re at the beginning of something fun. And I definitely think you can ask him out — I mean, why not? If you are ever going to get to know him for REAL, then you have to meet him for real. So think of something that’s not too intense (coffee date, group date to hear a band play, etc) and invite him.

      And be careful about feeling too invested in this yet. Hold yourself a little in reserve here. He was definitely premature in saying he “loves” you — he doesn’t even know you! So be cautious; allow him to prove what a good guy he is before you decide he’s a match for you.

      As for how to be flirty, just try to be yourself. This is just a first date! It’s only one small step in a relationship — I hope it will be incredibly fun for you, but let it be the small first step it is, okay?

      So yes: ask him out, enjoy yourself, smile and be the amazing woman you are, and see what it all feels like before you make any more decisions.

      You got this, soulshine. Now go enjoy yourself!

  13. H.M.H🐈

    Hey there!
    There is this guy that in the beginning of the school year I had a crush on him.Well,then he totally acked like a jerk. Therefore I no longer had a crush on him and because he is popular.Then,he started talking to me after I got my hair dye purple.I talked for him 2 hours straight and I realized he was nice.But,I have a feeling that he is just playing a trick on me cause I’m not popular and he is.Can you help me?

    • Claire Casey

      Hi H.M.H. — Sounds kind of exciting! But you have to slow down your pace a bit, and not focus too intensely on this just yet. Be your normal (💜purple-haired) self and allow things to unfold naturally. There’s no need to over-analyze, worry about, or even weed out guys who seem to like you right at the beginning. You want to give it a little bit of time, have a bunch of conversations and interactions with a guy before you decide whether he’s trustworthy or just a “player.” Hold yourself a little in reserve, beautiful; let a man WIN your trust over time. You got this! 😊

  14. How do you know if the friendly banter back and forth is really him interested or if he is just busy and doesn’t have time to have a cute text conversation. He lives in Texas and I am in Missouri so text and calls are what we have right now.

  15. Hi, these are super cute. They’re clearly made for guys though, does somebody want to give me some tips for some cutesy texts for me to send? I’m a highschool aged guy, and I want some advice from women.

    • Claire Casey

      Hi Reese! Yep, pretty much everything here is for women, but a really quick search online for cute texts to send your girlfriend will get you plenty of options! Thanks for stopping in, though! 😊

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