Dating and Romance

9 Ways to Make A Man CRAVE You Desperately

Figuring out how to make a man crave you is not about dressing hot or weighing less, or cooking for him, or getting him the most interesting gadgets on his birthday, or DOING particular things.

Those things might be fine, but making a man desperately crave you is even more importantly about what you SAY.

Any (seemingly) average woman who knows the most powerful words to say to her man will get more desire, commitment, devotion, and faithfulness than a woman who is only beautiful.

You’ve seen it happen – the ordinary woman has some guy falling all over himself to make her happy while the shockingly beautiful woman sits alone or with girlfriends, but no man.

The difference is not in what a woman does, but in what she says. And you have to say the RIGHT things to trigger these kinds of attraction feelings in a man.

Check out this list of 9 ways to trigger a man’s intense devotion to you, and then I’ll tell you WHY this works to make a man crave you.

You can use these as they are, or you can find out how to take these simple ideas, and crank them up until they are so powerful your man will never know what hit him…

1. Ask him to flex his muscles so you can feel them.

Tell him he’s handsome. Gorgeous. Irresistible. Tell him how sexy his body (or a specific part of his body) is to you.

2. Brag about him to other people (even when he’s not there).

Showcase his accomplishments to your friends.

3. Ask him to get you things that are out of your reach, or to carry heavy things for you.

Let him open that jar, wrestle that flat tire off, pump your gas, and walk you to your car in a dark parking lot. Let him be manly, and do manly things for you even if he’s a skinny, geeky, non-athletic type. He’s still a man!

4. Invite him to explain something to you.

Choose a passion of his and ask him about it. Math, soccer, radio waves, cars, how they get those ships into those bottles… What hobbies and interests does he have? Ask about them.

5. Stroke his (ahem!) ego in the bedroom.

Let him know what things he does arouse you, what things you can’t stop thinking about, even long after those sweaty, smoking-hot sheets have been changed. 🙂

6. Ask for his advice when you face challenges.

laughter and loveListen deeply. Consider his ideas and opinions without forcing him to “make your decisions for you.” And thank him for his input.

7. Tell him you’re incredibly proud of him.

Every man wants to feel like he’s appreciated for the good things he does.

8. Laugh at his jokes.

Even the awful groaners. Let him know you enjoy his humor.

9. Never expect him to read your mind.

Tell him what you need. What you love. What makes you shiver with excitement…

All these ideas have one thing in common

Every single one is just…words, right? (Okay, except for #8.) You’re asking him something, or telling him what you love about him. These are all just your words, NOT what you’re wearing, what you cooked, how much you make in your job, how skinny you are, or whether your hair is fabulous today.

You ask a question, or say something in particular… And boom. Instant positive reaction.

Here’s why they’re POWERFUL

The secret is in saying words or phrases that are mixed with STRONG EMOTIONS. These are the kinds of words which trigger overwhelming feelings of love and desire in a man.

These phrases make him feel like a MAN, like the kind of man you just can’t get enough of.

Want to take this and crank it up until you blow his mind?

man obsessed PMScientific research has found certain phrases create feelings of euphoria in the human brain, much like addictive drugs. These words and phrases can be used to make a man experience attachment, love, and long-term devotion.

Kelsey Diamond spent 3 years researching these unique “emotional trigger phrases,” and built them into a complete guidebook called Obsession Phrases.

Watch this video (Patrick does the video, but it’s about Kelsey’s work) to see how Kelsey helped hundreds of women at $300 an hour with one-on-one coaching, and then turned it into a course for much less than that.

→ Unusual words that leave men mesmerized

It doesn’t matter if you’re married or single, what your body looks like, or how old you are – if you want to make a man crave you, these “obsession phrases” work for everyone.

The Monogamy Awakener Phrase is most effective on the guy who just won’t commit. Dating any commitment phobes? This is the Phrase you want to use.

The Whiz-Bang Phrase instills in his mind just how valuable you are to him. Once he hears the whiz-bang phrase he will start to see you as the most important person in his life that he never wants to lose.

The Attraction Spinner Phrase is perfect for a woman who feels she is being used. If you think he only sees you as a friend or a fling, the Attraction Spinner Phrase will have him completely open up his heart and mind toward you.

→ Obsession phrases to make a man crave you

You’ll also find phrases for use in situations like

  • Getting your ex back (Love Cocktail Phrase)
  • Making him fall in love (Subconscious Bonding Phrase)
  • Keeping him from straying (Permanent Obsession Phrase)

Take a look at the video, try one of these phrases out tonight, and watch to see what happens!

xoxo Claire


17 comments on “9 Ways to Make A Man CRAVE You Desperately

  1. This was a great read.. I am engaged and I awesomely can retort I say these things to my MAN and you couldn’t be more right!! I love to compliment him he is absolutely everything I ever asked for in return!! Ladies say these things to him watch him light up!!

    • Claire Casey

      So glad you enjoyed the post, Angela, and HUGE congrats on getting engaged!

  2. Ahhh, it’s so nice to re-read this article after some time, and realize that I’ve been effortlessly (and almost automatically) using almost all of these with the new man in my life! Feeling all smile-y and proud of myself!

    Ladies, I can testify that these tips WORK, especially #4 (my guy visibly puffs up when he gets to enlighten me about technical stuff) and #9 (he specifically thanked me for this on more than one occasion—and it works for negative things too, as in, don’t expect him to realize you don’t like/want something!). And of course, #5 is always fun… 😉

  3. this is sooooo good.i enjoyed reading

  4. Of i had the money i would most definitely purchase your guys video of your hard work Claire.

  5. Claire Casey

    Hi, Kayla and Esther — Thanks SO much for the sweet words, you’ve definitely put a shining rainbow in my day. And I’m glad you got some pleasure out of the post. Kind of fun stuff, isn’t it? 🙂

  6. Beverley cameron

    My boyfriend just dumped me because he said I wasn’t attractive enough for him. So how do these phrases work when he just doesn’t fancy me. How can I turn tho gs around. I don’t want to make a full of myself and pester him. Or do I just leave it and see if he ever get a in contact with me. Help…Bev x

    • Claire Casey

      Oh, Beverly, I’m so sorry. It sounds to me he behaved like an insensitive jerk! It’s just mean to tell someone “You’re not pretty enough.” That’s wrong on so many levels.

      And honestly? If this is typical behavior for him, I don’t think he’s the man for you. I know that stings your already bruised and busted heart, but you don’t want to spend your time with someone who is unkind to you on such a fundamental level.

      I think your best bet here is to pick yourself back up, build up your courage, shine up your soul, and get out there and date other men. Don’t let his cutting behavior stop you from going after the things you dream of, and the loving partner who is waiting for you out there somewhere.

      You can do this!


  7. Hi I just can not afford thus program. An I really want my ex back. Wat do I do. I’ll be in the street soon..plz help me.

    Sincerely yours


    • Claire Casey

      Oh, Kathy — If you are about to be on the streets soon, I hope you’ll put all your energy toward seeing that you are in a safe place, with food and shelter. Draw on your support network of family or friends and make your plan now so that you don’t get caught at the last minute with no place to go. Getting your ex back can wait; your health and safety can’t. Please take care of yourself!

  8. How to contact you through E-mail… Need some advice…

  9. What if after applying all these steps he didn’t crave for you; what do you think the person should do?

    • Claire Casey

      It’s a totally legit (and very good!) question, Anny. The simple fact of the matter is that not all guys will be interested in you, just like you’re not interested in every man you meet, no matter how nice he might be. You have to start with a guy who has some of the same interests that you have, who is available and interested in dating you, and build from that foundation. As you already know, there are no guarantees and not every relationship turns into a LTR. But sometimes you find a man with whom you CAN build a beautiful future, and the tips in this article are great for helping you build that with him. 🙂 xoxo

  10. I believe it starts with anyone being confident in their own skin. Don’t take any wooden nickels from a man. Don’t jump to conclusions. Show respect only when given. And in so much words stroke his ego.

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