Figuring out how to make a man crave you is not about dressing hot or weighing less, or cooking for him, or getting him the most interesting gadgets on his birthday, or DOING particular things.
Those things might be fine, but making a man desperately crave you is even more importantly about what you SAY.
Any (seemingly) average woman who knows the most powerful words to say to her man will get more desire, commitment, devotion, and faithfulness than a woman who is only beautiful.
You’ve seen it happen – the ordinary woman has some guy falling all over himself to make her happy while the shockingly beautiful woman sits alone or with girlfriends, but no man.
The difference is not in what a woman does, but in what she says. And you have to say the RIGHT things to trigger these kinds of attraction feelings in a man.
Check out this list of 9 ways to trigger a man’s intense devotion to you, and then I’ll tell you WHY this works to make a man crave you.
You can use these as they are, or you can find out how to take these simple ideas, and crank them up until they are so powerful your man will never know what hit him…
1. Ask him to flex his muscles so you can feel them.
Tell him he’s handsome. Gorgeous. Irresistible. Tell him how sexy his body (or a specific part of his body) is to you.
2. Brag about him to other people (even when he’s not there).
Showcase his accomplishments to your friends.
3. Ask him to get you things that are out of your reach, or to carry heavy things for you.
Let him open that jar, wrestle that flat tire off, pump your gas, and walk you to your car in a dark parking lot. Let him be manly, and do manly things for you even if he’s a skinny, geeky, non-athletic type. He’s still a man!
4. Invite him to explain something to you.
Choose a passion of his and ask him about it. Math, soccer, radio waves, cars, how they get those ships into those bottles… What hobbies and interests does he have? Ask about them.
5. Stroke his (ahem!) ego in the bedroom.
Let him know what things he does arouse you, what things you can’t stop thinking about, even long after those sweaty, smoking-hot sheets have been changed. 🙂
6. Ask for his advice when you face challenges.
Listen deeply. Consider his ideas and opinions without forcing him to “make your decisions for you.” And thank him for his input.
7. Tell him you’re incredibly proud of him.
Every man wants to feel like he’s appreciated for the good things he does.
8. Laugh at his jokes.
Even the awful groaners. Let him know you enjoy his humor.
9. Never expect him to read your mind.
Tell him what you need. What you love. What makes you shiver with excitement…
All these ideas have one thing in common
Every single one is just…words, right? (Okay, except for #8.) You’re asking him something, or telling him what you love about him. These are all just your words, NOT what you’re wearing, what you cooked, how much you make in your job, how skinny you are, or whether your hair is fabulous today.
You ask a question, or say something in particular… And boom. Instant positive reaction.
Here’s why they’re POWERFUL
The secret is in saying words or phrases that are mixed with STRONG EMOTIONS. These are the kinds of words which trigger overwhelming feelings of love and desire in a man.
These phrases make him feel like a MAN, like the kind of man you just can’t get enough of.
Want to take this and crank it up until you blow his mind?
Scientific research has found certain phrases create feelings of euphoria in the human brain, much like addictive drugs. These words and phrases can be used to make a man experience attachment, love, and long-term devotion.
Kelsey Diamond spent 3 years researching these unique “emotional trigger phrases,” and built them into a complete guidebook called Obsession Phrases.
Watch this video (Patrick does the video, but it’s about Kelsey’s work) to see how Kelsey helped hundreds of women at $300 an hour with one-on-one coaching, and then turned it into a course for much less than that.
It doesn’t matter if you’re married or single, what your body looks like, or how old you are – if you want to make a man crave you, these “obsession phrases” work for everyone.
The Monogamy Awakener Phrase is most effective on the guy who just won’t commit. Dating any commitment phobes? This is the Phrase you want to use.
The Whiz-Bang Phrase instills in his mind just how valuable you are to him. Once he hears the whiz-bang phrase he will start to see you as the most important person in his life that he never wants to lose.
The Attraction Spinner Phrase is perfect for a woman who feels she is being used. If you think he only sees you as a friend or a fling, the Attraction Spinner Phrase will have him completely open up his heart and mind toward you.
You’ll also find phrases for use in situations like
- Getting your ex back (Love Cocktail Phrase)
- Making him fall in love (Subconscious Bonding Phrase)
- Keeping him from straying (Permanent Obsession Phrase)
Take a look at the video, try one of these phrases out tonight, and watch to see what happens!