We Slept Together Too Soon, Then He Disappeared. Can I Regain His Interest?

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So you slept together too soon, then he drifted off. There’s no point in blaming or shaming. The real question is often this: can you win him back?

We slept together too soon and he disappeared… Can I get him back?

“Claire, is there is way to reverse the effect of a man withdrawing and losing interest in you after early sex?” — A

Hi sweet A. I can tell it’s been a challenging journey for you.

Here’s an important thing to remember:

Men don’t leave BECAUSE you slept together too soon.

Men leave early on after jumping in bed if sex is really all they are interested in with you.

commit him nowI know that’s frustrating, and maybe it stings a bit, too. But don’t worry, I will give you some other ways to look at this and jump-start the engine again if you want to.

But first, I need to explain a few critical bits to this. The first thing (below) you already know, but the second two items may be things you hadn’t considered.

For most guys, the FIRST thing they tend to think about is the hot-and-heavy.

It’s not that men aren’t relationship-minded, because they are.

But they tend to think of the physical things first. How a woman looks, how attractive she is, intimate fantasies they have connected with her, and so on.

So if a man connects with a woman who is also interested and willing to jump in the sack right away, they are very often going to take you up on that offer.

But it doesn’t mean that they are interested in a relationship.

It just means they are interested in some steamy action with a willing, gorgeous woman (you!).

So you slept together too soon. Well, there’s nothing wrong with getting naked with a man if that’s what you want to do, and you’re keeping yourself safe and well-cared for.


This means he wasn’t really your boyfriend, and he’s also not your “ex.”

He’s just a guy who thought you were hot — a guy you hooked up with.

Which is what makes the next part even MORE frustrating.

Because a lot of women do the same thing when this happens: they start an “ex back” program.

They do the “no contact” period, then try to tease him back into a relationship.

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“Ex back” programs only work in this situation IF (and it’s a BIG if)…

This only works IF he actually wants a relationship. With you.

Which sounds fine, except that you both have VERY LITTLE to go on in order to decide if that’s the case.

So you can do the standard checks like

  • does he make me a priority in his life
  • does he make me feel strong and good when I’m with him
  • does he have my best interest at heart
  • do his words match his actions
  • do I trust him, etc…

But truthfully, you just don’t know enough about him if you only went out once or twice, then slept together once or twice.

If you still want to try again with him, here’s how you get started (7 steps).

You start the same way you would with any other man: at the beginning!

1. Build yourself up.

Invest in your own life, your dreams, your passions, and more than anything else, your self-love, care, and confidence.

2. Enjoy dating other men.

Men are very interested in a woman who is in high demand and clearly having the time of her life.

3. Let your joy and dating life be intriguing, and just a little bit publicly secretive.

Go out, enjoy yourself, and just leave sassy, interesting little hints here and there on your social platforms about it. Don’t “tell all” — just let it be clear that you’re enjoying life and the dating universe.

4. Bait your hook.

Send him a pleasurable reminder of something you really enjoyed about him, and nothing else.

This means you offer him a genuine compliment or some powerful words of admiration. Make it 100% sincere, and don’t overplay it.

5. If he bites, be willing to date him… But not instantly.

Give him time and space to wonder if you’ll respond. Don’t make yourself fully, instantly, constantly available to, and hyper-focused on, him. You’re not needy, you are busy enjoying all life has to offer.

6. Btw, these are dates, so do not accept if he wants a booty call.

But you already knew that. You slept together too soon last time, you won’t make that mistake again! 🙂

7. Let him run with the pack. He’s only one of several.

No matter what, don’t let him believe for one instant that HE is the ONLY one for you. You have more options than that. Keep dating other men. Give him room to miss you, want you, wonder what you’re doing. Let him work to win you.

Once you’ve gotten to know him better, you can make your OWN decision about whether to take the relationship deeper.

And listen, if he breaks things off, or doesn’t respond the way you’re hoping — well, you got lucky. You got out before you got in too deep.

Yeah, it’s a bit ouchie (especially ouchie if you were secretly feeling desperate or needy).

Maybe you slept together too soon. Maybe you are bruised a bit, but you are also SO strong, and on to find the man who WILL appreciate you for the true woman you are becoming.

True commitment begins with THIS (this is so smart it’s almost criminal)

Want to find out just how easy being loved and cared for is?

In this video, Nadine Piat shares a crazily potent love technique that will make your man (or the man you want) not only WANT you, he’ll be deeply connected to you and pretty much obsessed with you…

So much so, he would fight a big hairy grizzly bear just to be with you. 🙂

This technique is called “The Emotional Barrier Eliminator” and Nadine teaches you EXACTLY what you need to know to dissolve the toughest emotional barriers and melt the hearts of the best men (and the difficult ones) and have them craving you!

Get him totally focused on YOU

This is a must watch video (or you can read the article) for ALL women wanting to experience real and lasting love.

This makes GREAT love happen. And FAST.

In fact, what Nadine shares is what she personally used when she was dating a man who was emotionally detached from her.

Using this technique, she brought her man from emotionally detached to being in a beautiful, loving relationship with her.

And more than that: he also went from never wanting to get married and have children to asking her for a lifelong love and commitment — and kids!

So not only has it worked for thousands of other women, it worked for her too.

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NO situation is too hard to fix. This is for you…

  • Even IF you slept together too soon
  • Even IF he’s lost interest and distanced himself from you
  • Even IF you’ve tried apologizing, trying to talk things through, or even getting outside help…
  • Even IF you feel you did things you regret and wished you could turn back time to fix them
  • Even IF you did something so hurtful that you feel embarrassed and ashamed
  • And Even IF you feel hopeless and unable to attract men, or have been single for years.

This is all about creating deeper, more loving connections –- not misleading men or playing emotional games.

It’s for real, and it works.

You deserve to experience this BOND that few women are lucky enough to discover with their man!

xoxo Claire

PS: Nadine Piat is an expert in love and long-lasting attraction and she teaches you exactly what you need to know to keep the passion alive, the twinkle in his eye and to attract men like you’ve never experienced before…

And most importantly, she shows you how to KEEP the one you want!

PPS: I know you are still wondering if this is all about the fact that you slept together too soon. Nadine shows in her video the 3 ACTUAL (and INFURIATING) reasons why men pull away, AND what you can do about it.

Once you know this you’ll be able to bring your man back to you as fast as a lightening bolt, or if you’re single and dating, you’ll be able to grab the attention of any man and have him mesmerized by you and scrambling to get your full attention.

If fact, once you know this, you’ll stand out in a crowd, and no matter how steep the competition is, you’ll get the attention you deserve from the men you want.

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