Dating and Romance

The POWER of (Casually) Dating Several Men at a Time: What Every Smart Woman Should Know

The idea of dating several men at a time raises a LOT of questions. Here’s what you should know…

Great question about dating several men at a time…

“Hi Claire! I have a hard time with the idea of dating several men at a time. I can only focus my romantic interest towards one man at a time. Does this decrease my chances of meeting the right one and having a committed relationship?” — E.

Hello, lovely E. This is a great question, thanks for taking the time to send it in. I hope I can help you think about it in a smart way…

“Will dating only one man at a time decrease my chances of meeting the right one and having a committed relationship?”

You’re talking about dating one guy for a few months (or years) before deciding that it’s not a match, then moving on to try out another man.

You absolutely get to do that if you want!

But it does increase the amount of TIME it takes you to find the right match.

That’s why I’m a huge advocate of CASUALLY dating several men at a time.

Meaning, you casually, lightly, enjoyably date two or three men at a time for a while.

How to attract any man!Some of those guys just won’t be a match.

This one only wants sex, so he disappears pretty fast when he realizes that’s not what you’re willing to do. You suddenly discover this other one is in the middle of a divorce (which he didn’t tell you at first), so he’s out. Maybe the third guy is a complete workaholic and even though you really like each other, he never seems willing to make time and space in his life for you.

Because you’ve kept it casual, and dated several men at a time, you haven’t wasted months or years of your time on each one.

Instead, you’ve gotten to know the three guys simultaneously, and also kept your other options open. You’ve moved past all three unsuitable men in just a few weeks, and you’re still keeping your eyes and heart open for a better match.

And when a man with potential to be the right match for you shows up, CONTINUING to casually date several men at a time (or at least be open to it) has even MORE benefits…

It’s so much better for you, emotionally speaking.

  • Continuing to casually date others lets him know you value yourself highly.
  • It shows that you don’t commit yourself lightly or without good reason.
  • It shows you respect your own time and decisions.
  • It shows you are not a pushover.

And more than anything…

  • He understands that he will have to EARN your trust and exclusivity.

Which is incredibly powerful and appropriate. Trust takes time and effort to build!

And here’s what’s HARD about dating ONLY one man at a time…

Let’s say that rather than dating several men at a time, this one man REALLY lights your fire, so you focus all your dating time and attention ONLY on him.

casually dating several men at a timeYou’re saying, in effect: “I’m putting all my eggs in this one basket. I’ve decided on you, until you tell me differently.”

This puts him in the driver’s seat.

You’ve “chosen” him.

But has he chosen you?

You don’t know. You hope so. You hope he will. But you don’t know. You’re waiting to see. You’re invested, but you don’t know if he’s invested.

Girlfriend, that is not a great place to be in, emotionally speaking.

And while it’s not true across the board, MOST men don’t think “I’m only going to date one woman at a time.” It’s more common for men to be casual daters.

Don’t voluntarily give up your power, beautiful soul.

That’s why I often say…

Don’t become exclusive with a man until BOTH of you explicitly agree to do so.

Of course, that means you’ll have to talk about it.

And you’ll have to both know each other well enough to know that you want many of the same things in a relationship.

You’ll have to both know that there’s potential for your relationship to be long term.

And you should not agree to it until you know and trust him pretty well.

When you’re ready to build a DEEP relationship with CONSISTENCY and devotion…

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xoxo Claire
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