Does it seem to you that men are avoiding getting married? That they’re fine with dating and getting what they want, but when it comes time for a deeper commitment… They ghost off?
A series of recent scientific studies discovered that men are waiting MUCH longer before they:
- Say they’re in love…
- Make a commitment…
- Get into a relationship…
- Propose marriage…
They’re waiting 4 YEARS LONGER than they did just 10 years ago! (Source: The National Marriage Project, Rutgers)
So why the delay?
Why are so many men avoiding the altar? If you’re wondering why guys are perfectly willing to delay getting married, take a look at the list below. See anything that sounds familiar?
1. Men can get sex without commitment more easily than in times past.
Just 50 years ago, you were expected to wait until marriage before sleeping together (even if almost NOBODY actually waited until then).
But with the 1960s and free love, we stopped expecting to wait for marriage – and eventually, we even stopped waiting for the third date…
There IS a reason that men repeat the pattern of courting you and working so hard at first - and then "ghosting" you later on. And more importantly, there IS a way to BREAK THAT CYCLE and win his heart...
2. Men can enjoy ALL the benefits of having a wife by cohabitating rather than marrying.
These days, many people move in together before they get married. And if absolutely everything is like a guy wants it, why make any changes? There’s just nothing making him want to get married.
3. Men want to avoid divorce and its financial risks.
Giving up half his net worth in a divorce — not to mention the emotional turmoil and messiness — isn’t a good selling point for the idea of getting married.
4. Men fear that committed relationships – especially marriage – will require TOO MANY changes and compromises.
Yeah, a lot of guys are still stuck acting like overgrown boys. But the fact is that guys don’t want to stop having fun when they get into a relationship.
But more importantly:
5. He is waiting for the perfect soul-mate, and she hasn’t yet appeared.
You read that right.
The fact is that these very same men surveyed and studied all actually wanted a long-term committed marriage to the woman of their dreams. Getting married actually IS on their minds!
And more than that…
They expect their marriages to last a lifetime. Like the majority of young adults today, they are seeking a “soul mate.” – Rutgers Researchers
Most women think men would stay single forever if given the choice, but the research shows this just isn’t true.
So the “secret” (and it’s not really a secret at all) to getting a COMMITMENT from him is in number 5, above.
If you’re looking for that long-term, happily committed relationship — and by that I mean marriage — what you need to know is WHAT a man looks for in a soulmate.
So what (exactly) makes him think he’s found “The One”?
Have you ever heard of something called the “Love Law”? It’s a wave of love that hits him right in his DNA. 🙂
If getting married is on YOUR mind, then this is information you should have…
The Love Law decides:
- WHEN a man falls in love…
- WHO he falls in love with… and
- WHY he decides to commit..
And if you’d like to know where this magical DNA button is in him, here’s a short video that will explain:
I think you’re going to be shocked when you find out how this works – and how easy it is for you to get any man to realize he’s falling in love…