Have you ever loved the right man at the wrong time?
Most of us have. And here’s a simple solution to re-aligning your hearts and when it’s time, re-sparking his interest…
“Claire, I’ve been phantom following you for several years and really appreciate your advice.
Two years ago I fell in love with the right man at the wrong time. He was married. We swam laps together at the local pool, but nothing more as he was very respectful of his marriage. I really appreciated that about him. He reached out to me this year to see if I was interested in him in a romantic way. He is currently getting divorced. I know, I know, we should have waited for anything until the divorce was final.
Well of course we were getting re-acquainted and this escalated very quickly to wanting to see each other and plans for the future. We’re long distance, so we haven’t seen each other at this point.
As the divorce workings have escalated and he has gotten more stressed, I have also gotten more stressed and last week he blew up and said he was done and was getting his house in order and not to contact him. I haven’t heard from him since.
I totally understand everything that happened, and felt that I do need to back off to let him finish what needs to be finished.
I’m so sad about how things happened with us. I’m wondering what is the next step for me, or is there one?” — T.
I know your heart is broken.
But I’m SO pleased that you understand what happened, and are looking for your path forward.
Here’s what you should have said back when he first called you and asked if you were interested:
“I’m definitely interested. Get back in touch with me when you’re single.”
And that moment passed, but that doesn’t mean you can’t say it now…
So you loved the right man at the wrong time. Here’s your BEST next step…
Do now what you should have done then.
Send him a text or an email (don’t make it a phone call, you need to keep this brief).
Tell him that you’re so sorry for what he’s going through, and you wish him well.
And invite him to contact you one day when he’s made it through and is single again.
Don’t be tempted to add THIS…
Don’t tell him you’ll wait for him faithfully, or that you won’t see other guys, or that you are there for him if he wants to talk.
Don’t remain in contact.
Don’t be his friend, lawyer, or therapist.
This is HIS work, and you’re a distraction for him right now, and (potentially) a way to avoid — or get away from for a while — the very real pain of a messy divorce.
Be firm in your resolution.
He has to do the work of this stage of his life WITHOUT distractions.
Give him the deep, powerful gift of NOT being that distraction.
IF and WHEN it’s time to respark that romance, you need to know how to unlock his strong, POSITIVE emotions…
Your man will have been through a LOT.
He may feel lackluster, tired, or just have a much lower interest-level in you than he did before.
But that doesn’t have to be the way it is.
You can RESPARK his interest!
—> Make his heart SURGE with love for you again
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No more feeling continually anxious and watching for small signs of his approval (all the while your heart is screaming out for love!).
Discover the hidden loophole in a man’s mind that will flood his brain with a surge of addictive emotions… Including adoration… passion… and irresistible desire.
And it will be even better when he acts upon his rediscovered urges and treats you with the romance your heart is craving.
- Say goodbye to feeling lonely.
- Say goodbye to going to sleep wishing and craving he would wrap his arms around you and hold you close…
- No more feeling ignored, embarrassed, or unattractive… wishing he would love you, effortlessly, like he used to at the very beginning!
The weird and powerful mind secret you’re going to learn is going to turn your man into the attentive, loving, thoughtful, heart-racing romance magnet you always craved that he could be!
I can’t wait for you to tell me how great it feels to be back in love again 🙂
PS: If you want intense love from a man you need to know how to unlock his hidden, strong emotions.
Turn your “formerly” interested man into a passionate romancer with YOU in his sights!
Just “being in a relationship” is no guarantee that you are happy.
In fact, you might feel more lonely, unloved, and left out than ever before.
ESPECIALLY if your man barely notices you — texting you, sure, but not really showing any REAL passion or interest.
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