Quickies

QUICKIE: “I Want a Relationship, Not Booty Calls!”

no more booty calls

If you’re done with booty calls and want a relationship instead, here are all the best resources you need in one easy spot. That’s why I call these “Quickies”!

I wanted a relationship, but I think I’m just his “booty call”…

“Hey there sister Claire. I’m embarrassed to admit this, but I caved in and did the deed with my boyfriend on our first date. And we’ve supposedly been dating now for 5 months, but all he ever wants is sex! I think I messed up here. Can you help me get a boyfriend rather than just a guy to have sex with out of this?” — S.

Let me say this: EVERYBODY (well, nearly everybody) enjoys great sex.

And sometimes you think, “Hey, he likes me, I know he wants it, I’m a modern woman and I think getting naked with him will be fun. It’s easy enough for me to give him that.”

As a result, you both enjoy the sex, and he figures he will keep that going. And you keep answering his calls because you think it will eventually lead to a relationship.

Six weeks (or UGH, 6 months) later you’re wondering WHY the only thing you know about him is his fave position in bed.

I know, seriously frustrating. AND disappointing.

After all, he seems like a great guy!

Don’t worry, you CAN CHANGE THIS, sweet sister!

Here are my TOP 5 ARTICLES on the “I’m done with booty calls!” subject:

  1.  QUIZ: Does HE Think of You as a Booty Call or a Girlfriend?
  2.  How to Break the Booty Call Pattern & Get the Relationship You Want
  3.  How to FLIP that Booty Call Into a Real Relationship
  4. UPGRADE from Booty Calls to GIRLFRIEND (Again)
  5. How to Find the Men Who Want a RELATIONSHIP (and Not Just Sex)

My favorite HOT TIP is from Step 3 of the second article, and if the boy is at ALL interested in you, this works like unicorn magic, I am NOT kidding:

When he puts out the booty call, tell him you’re out with another “guy friend” or have plans with someone for a “special night.”

Let it be CLEAR that you live a full, interesting, and passionate life…which includes other men.

When he starts to ask “Who are you with?” and “Where are you going?” you know you’ve started to arouse his interest and get him bothered over you. Enjoy that feeling!

xoxo Claire

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