Commitment Dating and Romance

Top 10 Things You Must Have in a Relationship (And the Top 10 Dealbreakers)

must have in a relationship

Know the things you REALLY must have in a relationship

If there are a LOT of things on your “must have in a relationship” list, can you tell the difference between the true must haves and the dealbreakers?

When you’re in the middle of a relationship crisis is usually when you decide that the very thing the two of you are arguing about is the BIGGEST thing. You must have THIS, and you can’t compromise.

If you run your relationship like this, it isn’t going to last long.

Is your man about to bail out? If you’re open to it, there IS something you can do… >>FIND OUT HERE<<

Everything can’t be The Most Important Thing (or even ONE OF The Most Important Things). There really are requirements for what you must have in a relationship, and it’s actually a reasonably limited list.

Top 10 things you MUST HAVE in a relationship:

  1. He is very attracted to you EVEN if the two of you didn’t jump into bed right away.
  2. You two have similar foundational values in life.
  3. He makes you a consistent priority in his life. You’re not ALWAYS his #1 priority, but you’re always in the top 3 most important things going on in his life.
  4. You feel strong and good when you’re with him.
  5. His words consistently match his actions, so you are building a solid foundation of trust.
  6. The people most important to you like him.
  7. He is reasonably solid financially (or working to get there).
  8. He wants what’s best for you.
  9. You two have successfully been through some difficult things together, and come out better for it.
  10. He is mature and willing to grow.

These are worth struggling for, fierce heart! And the list below will help you know if it’s time to let him go…

Top 10 true DEAL-BREAKERS in a relationship:

  1. Neither of you have experienced any personal growth since you started dating each other.
  2. You are NOT one of the top 3 priorities in his life.
  3. You always have the sense that he’s hiding something from you.
  4. Your most-trusted friends dislike him, and he doesn’t like them, either.
  5. He’s deep in an addiction. (Or you are.)
  6. You’re never sure whether he’s about to show affection or become violent.
  7. He regularly tears down other people. (PS: You’re next.)
  8. He doesn’t value your opinion.
  9. He has money for fun stuff, but can’t pay the rent.
  10. He’s married or not *completely* finished with his divorce.

What are the 7 words that every woman fears?

“I’m sorry, it’s just not working out.”

And yet those words are becoming more and more common in today’s “plenty of fish” society.

Men are being told that “hooking up” is the way to go, so once they’ve gotten what they want from you, they’re on to another poor woman who will give them sex without commitment.

But what if you could awaken a man’s deepest desires for you? Stand out from all the other “fish”?

Strong Emotional Bonding

Do THIS if you feel he’s about to bail on you…

In my experience 9 out of 10 women don’t realize until it’s too late that men fall in love differently than women.


  • even when he can’t keep his hands off of you,
  • even when he tells you he loves you,

something inside of him remains cautious.

This is because of a primitive protective shield around his heart that tells him “don’t let her get too close.”

If you’re open to it, there IS something you can do.

You unlock his bonding code…

The Bonding Code was uncovered by Bob Grant, a licensed relationship counselor, who specializes in helping women who are fed up with men that won’t commit or get serious…

Bob has helped thousands of women get their men to “settle down” (and have him think it was his idea!) and you’ll be surprised at how easy it is when you follow the link below…

–> This keeps men happy and enthusiastic about commitment

PS: If you don’t understand how he falls in love, then honestly you’re leaving everything up to chance. But now you don’t have to.

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